Hate Speech
I've been banned for hate speech!
Yes, my LiveStream was temporarily suspended for a week due to "hate speech".
Confused? Don’t be.
If you’ve been following me for any length of time, you already know I break this down regularly, and ironically, this just reinforces the exact assertions I’ve been making.
Let me give you the short version:
"Men Fear Women"
That’s been the central theme of my Lives for the last six months.
Six months of extensive research, hundreds of hours of discussion, and real-time interaction aimed at understanding the mental health crisis we're witnessing, especially how it intersects with gender, power, and violence.
As a fierce advocate for women, I believe we can’t adequately protect women until we understand why some men want to hurt them.
That root cause matters.
My Lives are not just educational, they're also case studies. They provide an opportunity to share what I’ve learned while simultaneously testing and proving my hypothesis.
I can now predict, almost to the minute, when certain men will enter the stream, how they'll escalate, and how they'll exit, whether through angry DMs, name-calling, or reporting my content.
Take two nights ago, for example:
A man entered the Live with, “I don’t mean to offend you, but you’re really beautiful.”
I knew immediately, he'd be the one to crash out.
I asked, “Why would I be offended by your compliment?”
He said, “A lot of women get offended by compliments.”
I replied, “Women don’t get offended by compliments. They get offended by inappropriate ones, or when compliments come at inappropriate times. If you have to say ‘no offense’ before speaking, maybe just don’t say it.”
His response? “Can’t you just say thank you?”
And THAT right there is the deeper issue.
Compliments like his aren’t really about the woman at all, they’re about the reaction. The validation. The ego stroke.
So I asked, “If I don’t say thank you, am I still beautiful?”
His reply: ‘Fck you, cnt.’
Is that every man? No.
Is it common? Far more than many care to admit.
What it reveals is an entitlement, this belief that simply being a “nice guy” deserves applause. That women owe men something in return for basic decency. And when we don’t? We’re punished, insulted, silenced.
We talk about the male loneliness epidemic, but it’s often self-inflicted. Men hold each other to impossible standards of masculinity, then blame women when they inevitably fall short.
It’s easier to project than to unpack. Easier to report a woman than to reflect on why her words make you uncomfortable.
Meanwhile, I’ll keep showing up, even if it means dealing with men who say they hate me but stay glued to my stream for hours.
Who claim they don’t care what I have to say, yet beg for attention in every comment. And when they don’t get it, they lash out, call me names, and report me.
Because nothing says “I’m not afraid of women” like desperately trying to silence one.
